Complicated

I miss being a teen when 'love' was less complicated. *teens are up til you're 21* Girl likes boy boy likes girl, you go steady. You hold hands, you go steady. You kiss, you go steady. You flirt and laugh, you go steady.

But once you're pass that teenage phase, suddenly 'love' seems so complicated. GUYS seem complicated. You guys wanna say that we girls are complicated? Yeah fine. That's a given. But I never remembered a guy being so complicated. I used to think they were more straightforward with their feelings. But nowadays, they give more mixed signals than BN's divide and conquer rule. They say they want you but that doesn't mean they wanna go steady. They might just want you to be someone to talk to. Or someone to be in bed with. Or someone to do their groceries for. The person they really want is their future wife WHICH they've found in 3 other girls. It's no wonder that we girls need a book or a movie to tell us "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!"

Dating used to be so easy too. You go on a date, you don't like the girl, you say you don't like the girl. It's over. On to the next. But nowadays, it seems to go on and on and on and guys end up being stuck with girls they don't even like! Just tell her already!

So, the question is, since when did 'love' get so complicated? Does it come with the territory of being an adult? Is it something you just gotta go through as a right of passage to becoming an adult? Whatever it is, I think guys should start using their balls not for one reason only. Use it to tell someone you love them. Use it to tell someone you don't love them. Oh, but on second thought, you guys DO use em for those reasons. Just in a more physical way. Guys! Can't stand em, can't live without em.